
I kind of stumbled into Kasey over at
All That is Good and I just love her blog carnival, Friend
Makin Monday. So, I decided to join in this time! In honor of her 7 year anniversary, the question is:
How did you and your significant other meet?
Well, here is our story. I will try not to be too long-winded! {smile} I was on the east coast and he was on the west coast. I had this college friend who was engaged to this great guy (nicknamed Slim) who went to church with my Husby. Well, I met Slim and thought he was great. I asked him if he had any single friends like himself. He mentioned my husband. So, eager to "hook us up," Slim gave Husby my email address. He did email me and I was so taken aback that it took awhile for me to email him back. I wish I had saved the email (you know, now that I think about it, I need to look through *my box* and see if perhaps I did print it and save it...).
Anyhow, in the email the main thing that I remember is that he referred to me as a virtuous woman. Now, that is great and all, but it kind of gave me a weird impression of him...being that that was his very first email to me. He didn't know me...other than what Slim said about me...and I didn't really know Slim that well either. So, to be perfectly honest, my first impression of my Husby was that he was one of those "holier than thou type people." I don't know how else to say it, but that was what I thought.
So, I didn't email him back for at least two weeks. Infact, I went out of town for part of the time. So, when I got back, I emailed him. But, he had graduated college and no longer had access to his college email. Now, at the time, I didn't know all this. I just figured that he got my email and decided not to respond. So, I wrote him off and didn't think much more about him...that is until I got a call from Slim. He wanted to know how things went with me and Husby. Well, I told him that we never connected with each other. So, Slim asked if it would be okay if Husby called me the next day. I said sure. Well, about thirty minutes later I get a call from Husby. Now, mind you, it is about midnight my time (we were in different time zones.) I complain about how Slim said that he was going to have Husby call me the next day. Husby declares that Slim told me that I was up and expecting him to call right then.
So, we spend the first 15 minutes or so dogging out Slim and how he got over on us. But, would you know that that phone call lasted for 3 hours. We talked for 3 hours again the next night and the night after that. Okay, I think I AM getting long-winded. I will try to speed it up a bit! {smile}
Remember, we were on opposite coasts. So, the bulk of our relationship was over the phone. That first night that we spoke was Easter 1999. He came to visit me in July 1999. He proposed to me when I went out to visit him in December 1999. I graduated from college in May 2000 and we were married in June 2000. (My aunt always said that I had to get my BS before I could get my Mrs.)
So, by the time we got married, we had been in each other's physical presence for about 1 month and that includes the few weeks came out prior to the wedding! So, to make a LONG story short, we were married a little over a year after our very first phone call! God is awesome and He has given me an awesome man who still sometimes refers to me as a virtuous woman! {smile} Almost nine years and five kids later, we are still just as in love as we were years ago...just a bit more tired! {smile}

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